Thursday, May 24, 2007

soccer game

One of my coworkers is a season ticket holder for the NY Red Bulls soccer team. And he offered up some free tickets for the game tonight vs. the Chicago Fire. Should be fun, and yes, I am taking a date. It's one of the guys I met on my ski trip several months ago -- he's the technical recruiter. Had a beer with him the other night, but before that, we actually hadn't seen each other in a few months because, well, he kind of dropped off the face of the earth for a bit when he had to change jobs, and it was basically sucking up all his energy and time. That kind of non-communication tends to drive me crazy, after all, how am I supposed to know if someone is interested in me if I don't hear from him. Anyway, figured I'd give it another go.

I decided not to follow up with rocket scientist guy, and I had an enlightening conversation with another woman that I went on a recent hike with. She and I were on the same ski trip (but didn't meet up then) and it turns out that she got into a long conversation with rocket scientist guy -- turned out he had just been dumped from a promising relationship and he was pretty devastated, etc. That would explain the slight air of desperation that he had that weekend on the ski trip. I can't really remember what else she said...something about how he had told his ex-gf 'i love you' too soon...and that he was interested in only tall women. Anyway, I don't think I would want to be the "rebound" person. I don't really want to hear anyone else's sad stories at this point. Isn't that what therapy, or a blog is for? (ha!)

More importantly, I've been meeting a lot of interesting women -- so now I think I'm assembling a group of good regular girlfriends who are interested in doing fun, outdoors, physical activity. As Calvin & Hobbes would say "the days are just packed!" Boy, I can't wait for summer.

(I hope this satisfies those of you who were saying I'm not talking enough about my dating life...well, when you have the flu, and work, and job searching....there just wasn't a lot of material for a while)

But back to the soccer team names -- who comes up with these names anyway? I supposed I should be glad that it isn't the NY PacBell or some other company name. Neighborsman, do you remember what was the full name of your A's babe ruth or little league team? I know it had something to do with a plumbing association.

2 comments:

Southern Man said...

Sounds like your social life (dating and otherwise) is quite exciting and entirely normal. Enjoy it! I think your having a group of girlfriends is essential. I don't get out with my guy friends nearly often enough - busy, busy, busy... but summer is coming and that means boats to float and fish to catch!

And even as a non fan your list of baseball parks visited in the previous post is impressive. Most impressive.

Neighborsman said...

Lange Plumbing A's, that's who I played for.